Valentine's Day is nearing!

I'm looking forward to my first Valentine's Day with him =)) No need expensive gifts or meals. A sweet or pleasant surprise is enough to melt my heart!

Shin Yi shall now share with you some different emotions men and women have!
Source : CHOICES Jan issue

The primary love needs are:

WOMEN

- caring
- understanding
- respect
- devotion
- validation
- reassurance

MEN

- trust
- acceptance
- appreciation
- admiration
- approval
- encouragement

MISTAKES COMMONLY MADE

WOMEN

- She tries to change or control his behaviour by sharing her upset and negative feelings. (It's okay to share but not when they attempt tp manipulate or punish)

- She doesn't acknowledge what he does for her but complains about what he hasn't done.

MEN

- He doesn't listen, get easily distracted, doesn't ask interested or concerned questions

- He takes her feelings literally and corrects her. He thinks she is asking for solutions so he gives advice.

Are you guilty of any mentioned above?